Quick answer
Prompt a response without adding heat or unnecessary length.
- Start with: Restate the shared context
- Finish with: Make the next step easy
- Pause if: Do not imply urgency you cannot explain
Primary sources for this guide: ILO Bureau for Workers' Activities; Acas workplace advice (United Kingdom). Check the source that applies to your location and situation before acting.
Know when to escalate: If the situation involves immediate danger, suspected crime, serious health symptoms or a deadline with major legal or financial consequences, contact the appropriate local emergency service, official body or qualified professional.
A step-by-step plan
Restate the shared context
Open with the meeting, request or document both people recognize. A brief shared reference prevents the message from sounding disconnected.
If the follow-up should lead to a live decision, plan that conversation with How to Run a Useful Meeting.
Name the pending item
State exactly what response, approval or item remains open. Avoid combining unrelated requests under one vague reminder.
Give a practical deadline
Give a date only when it serves a real dependency, and explain that dependency in plain language rather than manufacturing urgency.
If you need words for a specific, bounded request, use the Help Request Builder.
Make the next step easy
Offer the easiest reasonable action, such as replying with approval or choosing between two times. Keep one main call to action.
Common mistakes and warning signs
Use these checks as reasons to slow down and verify the situation. One warning sign alone does not settle every case.
- Do not imply urgency you cannot explain
- Keep the subject line specific
- Use one call to action
Progress checkpoints
| Checkpoint | What you should have |
|---|---|
| Before acting | Restate the shared context |
| Before finishing | Make the next step easy |
| Reason to pause | Do not imply urgency you cannot explain |
Final checklist
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Sources and further verification
Rules and official processes vary by country and can change. Use the responsible organization for your location and situation. These starting points may cover a different jurisdiction.
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